I am submissive but not subordinate. I've not read Shades of Grey - the Gor series suits me. I like to be told what is required of me in a sexual relationship. I'm not fond of the bar scene and prefer, at this time, privacy. My friends would say I'm easy going,, polite, and with a streak of control. This is only my need to feel my boundaries are pushed and I push back to see if I can respect the person trying to put me in a submissive position. I have been in one short informal relationship. It was only enough to whet my appetite.
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My Ideal Person:
He will confidant, even to the point of arrogance. Controlled but not overly controlling. He is capable of making decisions based on the facts quickly but is flexible enough to adjust as needs must. He must know how to handle a woman well. He will be willing to train me to his specifications. He will be looking for a long-term relationship - a man I can trust to the most high degree. He will realize intimacy in found on many levels.
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